Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Meme about Reaper

my friend padme completed this meme and i thought it would be fun... 

At least it gave me something to do this afternoon...

We'll see what Master-Reaper has to say about it later, eh?

1. He's sitting in front of the TV, what is on the screen?
Most likely a video game... Though we don't have TV (no digital box, cable or satellite , he does have a few favorite shows: Doctor Who, Psych, Burn Notice, and Castle, so that's not outside the realm of possibility. 

2. You're out to eat; what kind of dressing does he get on his salad?
Some kind of vinaigrette, most likely. 

3. The most striking thing about his physical appearance?
Personally, i think it's his eyes. They're a very unusual hazel and look quite predatory. 

4. You go out to eat and have a drink; what does he order to drink?
Coke or pepsi, usually.

5. Where did he go to high school?
The bulk of it was at a private school.

6. What size shoe does he wear?
Size 12 or 13, depending on the shoe.

7. If he was to collect anything, what would it be?
Anything he loves. Seriously, Master-Reaper has a bit of a compulsion to hoard things. His collection of kinky gear is a good indication. You know those massive whole wall entertainment centers? His gear overflows it. And we won't mention the 3 sets of drawing pencils.

8. What is his favorite type of sandwich?
If it has meat in it, he'll eat it.

9. What would he eat every day if he could?
Breads. >.< i'm trying to trim the gluten in our diet down again, and we have been eating a lot of bread.

10. What is his favorite cereal?
Captain Crunch with the berries...sometimes Raisin Bran. But he rarely eats cereal anymore. 

11. What would he never wear?
Pretty sure crossdressing is on his list of hard limits. 

12. What is his favorite sports team?
i'm not sure he has one; when we do watch any kind of sport, it's usually martial arts & mixed martial arts. 

13.Who did he vote for?
Complicated. He likes guns. He believes everyone should pay a fair share of taxes. He doesn't like big government. He believes in individual rights. Doesn't really fit any one party, does he?

14. Who is his best friend?
Mostly me, i think; though one friend, E, has remained since high school. (i've known Reaper longer!)

15. What is something you do that he wishes you wouldn't do?
The one habit he couldn't stand was my smoking; though i've been able to quit, i think i'll crave it for the rest of my life. Also, my brain short circuits about where i picked something up from and so i often put it back in a different spot. This also drives him nuts. 

16. What is his heritage?
Invader and invaded. <snicker>

17. You bake him a cake for his birthday; what kind?
If it is homemade, probably some kind of chocolate. Maybe could get away with caramel. But, his favorite? An oreo-blizzard ice-cream cake.

18. Did he play sports in high school?

19. What could he spend hours doing?
Drawing. Writing. Being cruel to me. <WEG>
20. What is one unique talent he has?
He's a modern Renascence man. He's quite talented in many different ways... His tongue is also freakishly long. 

Thursday, April 18, 2013

Time flies...

So we fail at blogging for March.

But then, there's been this interesting thought surfing the kink blogs lately (over at Kaya's blog, Morningstar's too and probably a few others) about how relationships change and simmer down to become something greater... And that's beautiful.

Right now, we aren't boiling. Reaper and i, this month, will have been "together," as they say, for 15 years. We compliment each other's strengths, we are each other's solidity. We know each other (likely He knows me better than i know Him, because that's just His way). Despite those years, though, and seven years of newlywed kinksters continual indulgence of playing whenever the mood struck, we still crave the heat. We aren't done with our intense scenes. We aren't. i look into Master-Reaper's eyes and see the desire burning away, barely held in check by everything else that life is composed of. i feel it burning in my own heart. And every moment that we can steal away from everything else, where we can indulge the Sadist and His masochist, we will...even knowing that it only fans the flames. We'll be ready for the heat when we get back to boiling. We'll welcome it.

We just keep shifting between "low" and "high" temperature burners. Our little miracles are bringing beautiful, challenging chaos into our lives. And we may look fairly average, but that doesn't mean i don't love the thrill of fear from the sound of the tazer that i can't see clutched in His hand. Mistaking Master-Reaper for average? Not sure how they do -- that predatory gaze is always such an undercurrent in His eyes.