Monday, October 25, 2010

Insatiable Desires' Thirty Days of Kink...

So I came across this today and I wanted to get involved. Rayne's Thirty Day's of Kink. I may not be able to do it every day but, hey, it didn't say thirty consecutive days of Kink;)

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

My kinky self? I am a dominant man. A sadistic, controlling, cruel man. Or at least I like to think so. I am interested in many aspects of BDSM, the fetishes, the control, ownership of a sex slave, the dehumanizing and humiliation that comes with owning a slave. I live a 24/7 O/p lifestyle with my girl jenpet, who has been my collared slave for over ten years now. We've spent the entirety of our adult lives invested in our lifestyle and there have been many changes and challenges along the way.

In our lives, I possess her utterly and relish the control I have over her life and body. I am bit of a micro-manager, controlling her privileges and setting her boundaries. My view of her slides between a kept slave and a house pet. I like to make her work, performing labor and house hold chores (albeit when we have the time, damn busy schedules) while other times I like to let her curl up on the couch and lay her head in my lap.

Our lives underwent an immense change with the birth of our child. Gone were the days of my naked slave wearing only a collar and a smile, curled up on the floor or doing chores (a bit of self delusion there but I'm sticking with it). Though our wild nights and play opportunities have dried up significantly, a situation we are both suffering through, it has provided something unexpected and wonderful. Subtlety. I feel that our relationship has become deeper and more ingrained in every aspect of our lives as a result. Something that I'm sure will benefit us greatly when the river of opportunities for play starts flowing again.

We are kinky bloggers, and share our unique perspectives through our blog. We are also FetLife members and through that we are able to maintain some level of contact with the BDSM community. I enjoy sharing my life and my views with like minded kinksters.

I love my lifestyle and my slave and I could not imagine living life any other way.

3 comments:

Florida Dom said...

Thanks for sharing on your lifestyle and, yes, the arrival of a bady does change things. But hope you both continue to enjoy the lifestyle.

FD

Masterofslavej said...

Its rather amusing, I think that topic that is repeated the most on our blog is our kid. Then again parenthood is and all consuming thing. Thanks for the comment...

rayne said...

Pfft... I don't think I've posted a single day in order. And I've been posting most of them on Eden Cafe.

Thanks for participating! Glad to have you along.